
3
Directed by Tom Tykwer 2010
After twenty years of living together, not living together, thinking about kids, not having them, working, loving, sleeping, living, Hannah and Simon arrive at an impassé in their relationship, they both realize, simultaneously and secretly (from each other) that they are no longer satisfied, that their life together has become nothing more than habit.
Hannah starts having sexual fantasies during a medical conference by Dr. Adam Brom, whom she later keeps bumping into at various public places. At this time Simon is diagnosed with a cancer tumor which will require treatment, as his mother is also diagnosed with terminal cancer. A short time later Simon's mother dies and after saying his last goodbye to her he is stricken by an incredible pain and rushes to see his doctor. He is told they need to remove one of his testicles immediately and start him on chemotherapy. Before and during the procedure Adam tries calling Hannah who is busy on a day out with Adam that concludes with the two of them sleeping together.
Life goes on; as Hannah takes care of a convalescing Simon she is suddenly struck by a thought, the possibility of having a child.
During a night at the public pool Simon meets Adam and after a friendly swimming race they end up having a much more intimate moment in the locker rooms. The event sends Simon into an abyss of emotional confusion which later evolves into a continuing relationship with Adam.
The secret affair, both Hannah and Simon, have with Adam revitalizes their relationship and they decide to finally get married. Regardless, they both continue having a very fulfilling bond with Adam. When Hannah becomes pregnant (with twins) a confrontation arises, creating a turning point in the lives of all three of them.
Tom Tykwer creates a very mature work without losing any of his playful style in the process. In a way “3” seems like an adult version of his more juvenile Run, Lola, Run (1998). As Lola presented three different possibilities of life for its main characters, conversely, ”3” presents three characters that converge onto one life and are forced to make a decision. Out of the three, Adam is the only one who is stable and mature, after a divorce and a kid he is finally sure of himself, of what he wants and how he lives his life, acting without any qualms about his actions. He is in love with both Hannah and Simon.
As Bowie’s Space Oddity (heard three times on the soundtrack) warns us, with “3” we should be prepared to leave all security and venture on a journey into the unknown.
Like life itself “3” is tragicomical, staging all possible events of the human experience (love, illness, death, sex, new life) and showing how all of these can pull people closer or, sometimes, separate those experiencing them.
Tykwer resolves the story in a beautiful fairy tale like manner emphasizing that sometimes to be happy you have to “say goodbye to your deterministic understanding of biology”.





